A “Gap Year” is what kids in every other Western Nation outside of North America do in the time between leaving high school and beginning their higher education (or a job). It is their chance get out into the world and discover its wonders before being burdened with children, careers and mortgages.
So, I read with interest that one of the new trends we are seeing amongst the Millennial generation in North America is putting off buying a house, and investing in experiences such as travel instead.
Is this a great way to lead a balanced, fulfilling life OR is it a frivolous indulgence?
If you’re over 35, you need to set aside everything you’ve ever been taught, and consider this question a bit more objectively. The conventional wisdom is that you start working when you’re 12 years old, save up for a down payment, and purchase your own home as soon as possible.
But is it really going to make any difference if you delay this a few years?
At the risk of appearing self-indulgent, I’ll use myself as an example. Travel has been a life-long passion, and when I was in my early-twenties back in the 1980s, I spent a year in Australia, New Zealand and some of the Pacific Islands.
For me, it was an easy decision – but many of my peers would ask me questions like:
“How much did that cost you?”
“Wouldn’t you rather buy a new car instead?”
“Isn’t that a waste of money that you could use to buy a house?”
Thirty years later, I don’t appear to be any further behind my peer group when it comes to the inevitable comparison of “who owns what”.
The one thing I do have that many in my peer group don’t, is the memories and the life experience that the trip provided. Being exposed to other cultures and people as a young person helped me form a system of values that I feel has served me well.
One of our failings in North America is not realizing there is a larger world out there. Many of the social issues of our time have been solved in other countries, but we fail to consider those solutions because we are ignorant to their existence.
Perhaps the Millennials are onto something.
While we have more ‘stuff’ than anyone else on the planet, we are well down on the list of the Happiness index, while countries whose people get out into the world more often rank near the top.
Of course, travel is not the ticket to happiness, but it appears as though buying a house when you’re 22 isn’t either.
So – what do you think? Are these Millennials who are spending all their money tramping around the world going to regret it in a few years, or will they cherish those experiences and memories?
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